QUOTE (theoriginalemokid @ Mar 29 2008, 10:48 AM)

I need some help I recently broke up with my boyfriend because he was a jerk that messed me around.
but he's started dating my bestfriend and she asked me before she said yes if I minded
I said no but inside I was worried that he might mess her life up aswell
and he's always said that I would only have to ask and he would come back to me
and well I think I still love him even after what he's done
I wanna take him back but without hurting my mate what should I do?
PLEASE HELP!!!!!
Thats happened to me. Actully pretty recently.
I know you still have feelings for him,
And it may seem like you want him back,
But like you said,
He hurt you. And he is never going to change.
So even if you do take him back he will hurt you again,
And this whole situation will happen again.
Plus, you said no, you wouldnt mind to your friend,
and even though it may hurt, you cant go back on your word.
If she is happy you need to keep those feelings to yourself.
If he does hurt her like he did you, All you can do is be there for her,
And dont say "Told You So" you know what I mean?
I hope I helped. :]
-Chelsea-